Hara Aramaya {Kansas, USA}
The Womb
a Non Binary/ Agender Perspective
The womb is a sacred space of creation. Not one being on this planet, (regardless of gender identification of the birther) did not come from the sacred portal of the womb / hara.
Both chaotic and orderly, the womb cultivates the force of absolute balance of creative life force energy for a whole new universe to be birthed.
It is not just about birthing human beings, it is all creations.
All creations originate right here in the womb/hara.
The gestation magic is within us.
Regardless of gender assignment at birth it is all within our pelvic bowls.
Living our life is truly the art of co-creation (& destruction) with the universe through mind blowing-soul melting-heart opening constant Sacred Energy Xchange (S.E.X) with the earth, other living and non living beings & the universal intelligence.
Our Sensuality is the gateway of this sacred exchange.
We are home when we are in the womb of the earth. It starts right here. Tending to our wombs; to our bodies the home of our intuition.
Within, by inhaling with presence, grace and softness.
Then exhaling in gratitude and acknowledgement.
The exchange is a reciprocal-cyclical beauty between us and the universe.
That is the magic of the womb & I am so thrilled to play with you in these sacred grounds.
In every awakened womb there is a whole universe awaiting to be birthed!
Hello beautiful souls! My name is Hara (They/she/he) and I’m honored to journey with you through this spiral as a Somatic Womb Alchemist, Cacao Ceremonialist, Karuna Reiki & Blue Celestial Master, Energetic/Folk Herbalist & a Temple Arts Facilitator.
I am a Non Binary Agender neurodiverse, panromantic, demisexual, kinky, poly-playful, Eco-Feminist, Gaia´s Lover, Sensualist, artivist and activist.
I trained in many modalities and resonate with many titles and pronouns at different times as I am ever-evolving in this journey of unfolding..
This journey of life has reassured me that the only thing constant is change & to embrace it is…growth and evolution over time. Just like Gaia :)
Fluidity in grace is of the essence and the true magic is in finding stillness in the movement through our senses.
The Holy Trinity Blueprint of Womb Healing has brought me home to my body again and again .. and I am stoked to walk this path with you!!
I walk with individuals who desire to feel home & to find stillness in their bodies as they grow in movement to create a life governed by pleasure, love and authenticity with energy nourishment, self care & somatic womb awakening.
My initiations ~ I will share a bitesize on my journey as I feel that it may be important to some, to know this part. If you don’t feel called, go ahead and skip to the next section 🌺
My journey has felt restrictive, challenging, difficult, painful, dangerous, thrilling, expansive, chaotic, seductive, miraculous, easy, graceful and many things. At first I wrote about my heavy trauma in this section as when I first discovered my womb space there was so much anger, disconnection and bitterness coming from my womb (they/she).
Then I decided to shift my perspective to focus on sharing what the gift was to each experience instead of the pain it brought.
Then I changed my mind again as my heart directed me to share only what feels to be easily shared to anyone on this big wide web of the internet.
I am continuously learning self preservation and conservation as I attune to my own resonance & frequency myself. (It is an incredible journey to LISTEN & get to know ourselves each day as if it is the first time all over again!)
My experience over the last 32 years of life on this planet have encompassed the experience of a strict religious upbringing, high socio-economic family expectations, exorcism, domestic abuse, childhood sexual molestation, adult sexual violence, BDSM lifestyle living, professional dominatrix-ing and mentoring, all sorts of other types of adult industry work, first generation immigrant with deported parents at a young age, depression and heavy suicidal tendencies, abortion and medical professional industry.
These events were contributors to all of those feelings of anger and disconnection; yet there was so much wisdom that came from it.
There were days I felt like a walking billboard of sin and then there were days that miracles happened in the most inexplicable ways that I knew the God that I knew and feel was not the one that my grandmother & religious tradition bestowed upon my “sins”. & existence. I often felt not good enough and all too much at the same time.
I often wondered during my adult industry time if I was going to make it home or not. I have done most things people consider taboo and maybe even fear… At the same time this experience has humbled me so much in many ways.
That things are complex, it is never black and white or binary, humans are beautiful in this way and that in the art of true witnessing, listening and compassion there is pleasure and that is rooted in authenticity, vulnerability & connection.
Most people just desire this when they come into these spaces. It has opened my eyes so much to false socio-economic agenda and gateways of compassion towards humanity as a whole. I shared more on this timeline in a podcast episode with Woo Knew.
During nursing, it was an episode of living in my head and abusing the labor of my body. Yet.. being so close through portals of Birth (L&D), Death (ICU) & Complete Openness and Surrender (operating room) was profound in itself.
This human body is truly an amazing organism and there is certainly a palpable & tangible realm outside of our physical one.
The most important lesson was that even if you are a hot mess.. You can still show up for others. Particularly in the oncology unit, it has also shown me tangible evidence on the importance of taking care of what is in our energetic field as it will manifest to our physical bodies.
When I was in a particular empath/narcissist dynamic, I was on top of the Alps of Chamonix when I finally accepted that I was pregnant and I knew I was not ready. Abortion took place on a cold snowy day in NYC on a Valentine’s Day - I knew things needed to change & shift. This experience is for another time to share but I did want to mention this, as it was because of the presence of this spirit in my womb that lead me to the lineage of the Rose, Hathor & Neo Tantra Temple Arts, Tibetan Tantra -Chod practices then down the road, Wise Womb Medicine Path.
Each day I continue to discover that all the wisdom and insights acquired, became applicable & relevant in my time as a space holder and facilitator.
Strong emotions often come in my journey and I let it and allow this experience to burst me open to receive further blessings from the universe.
Nowadays.. I always pray to my benevolent, loving, compassionate guides - please escort me with grace and compassion through my growth.
These mentioned are the tip top of the iceberg of its complexity & I hope by sharing these, you can receive a sense of my presence and energy. And that it reminds us to find gifts in every challenge we encounter. For we will never be placed in front of something we are not ready to face.
The Path
I am grateful till this day that my body, spirit & ego did whatever they needed to do to preserve me at that time going through some of the experiences. Even when it meant I needed to check out of my body at that time, to just live. So when I came home to my womb.. I was able to be here.
Our bodies & egos are kind and thoughtful in that way. They know when things get tough and how to protect us so that it prepares us to receive what is for us in life truly; when its time.
One for me being finding Naomi’s work amongst other modalities to steward me back to the apprenticeship of my own womb & Oracle. If I did not check out of my body in the times that I did I probably would not be here.
The journey to return to the womb can be challenging.. It often requires everything we know and then letting it go. It is a deep journey of surrender where we may find ourselves in pain and pleasure simultaneously in the body.
Present with all that we thought we could process and could not process. Coming home to our resonance is learning how to get out of our own way & letting the body and ego know that it’s safe to be here. The womb is void. Labor is messy. Birth is beautiful ..
Following the call to Naomi Love’s work has provided me with that feeling I hope to create for you!
It’s a feeling of “home” like a cozy sweater on a beautiful winter wonderland day and a cup of warm cacao in your hands by the warm fire, with its sweet soothing crackles (Even if shits going down in your journey lol!).
Having a guide is simply like allowing someone else to help us prepare our homes to receive us back with some flowers and that cup of cacao.
Naomi’s grace gave me the ability to hold myself in grace and love in the stillness of movement. It expanded my capacity to hold space for myself then others. & I am so excited to share this with you!
When we walk together as your steward, I want you to feel held, for each journey to be as powerful to its own accord. It is a completion to a cycle in which it is ready to be completed in the highest grace and abundance of love.
Everything created & expressed in the space is to your pleasure of complex, yet simple authenticity.
It is a connection to your own resonance and your own feeling of home in the body.
This is what we’re here for - to walk home empowered & with delight into your own true home in this lifetime - your body and creations.
Please see below for my contact information to see if we are a match, it would be an honor to journey with you!
With Love, Hara
“HARA! You magical goddess! I had such profound experiences in each of our sessions that made me feel like our souls were so aligned in this experience. My sessions with you were so necessary, invaluable, and potent. I just love how sweet and gentle your space holding is, and soooo powerful. You made me feel so held and loved, and your container allowed for so much movement and surrender. I am so grateful we finally got to work together and I am so excited we have connected, and I hope we continue our relationship in the future! I love you!” - Ali Arams